Why do Men?

I decided to get a tattoo that states "Why do men?". It's something I find amusing. I came to this amusing conclusion when I was hanging with a group of friends. We all know that's where all your best ideas come from. My friends were enjoying life like they do and I was enjoying a bottle of tequila because why not? We were all talking about men and why men are men... Now woman can be woman too but men are weird. Relationships are weird in general whether with men or woman or whomever. Loving someone is hard. Letting a stranger into your home/heart is hard. I can remember relationships that I gave my all to and never came out on top. Until I met the love of my life and it all made sense. But how do I explain that to others. How do I say "That person isn't right for you because it's clear that person just doesn't love you" Love is self-less. Love is freedom. Love is kind. Everyone loves differently. I will say that much. But honey, if he has cheated on you more than once that's not love. TOXIC. Love is protection. Love is grace. Love is forgiving. Now you can forgive someone but if he is cheating on you and you guys work it out and he does it again. nope. Also, if someone is putting you down or making you feel like shit. TOXIC. Now I'm not going to go to deep into this but love is different for everyone so I can understand that you will stay with someone because you love them. But the most important love of all is the love that you give yourself. And that's tea. When I was with my girlfriends and we were all talking about our relationships in the past and how they sucked, I realized why do men/woman act the way they do? But why do WE continue to let men/woman treat us they way they do? Why? Is it because we think that's the love we deserve? Or is because that's the way we treat ourselves? Either way why do men act the way they do? And why keep fucking them when they fuck us in the end? WHY "DO" MEN?